The Oil Was Never Wasted: The Shift — How God Used My Pain to Unlock My Purpose

A WORD FOR KINGDOM WOMEN

If you had told me a year ago that I’d be a Christian Life & Brain Coach, I would’ve laughed in your face.

Seriously. I’d been a chef for 25 years — successful, secure, known.

And at 50 years old? Too old (I thought) to start over, too tired to go back to school, too busy to chase a wild dream that didn’t make sense on paper.

But then the fire was ignited!

The desire to help and empower women wouldn’t leave me alone.

I longed to turn my pain into purpose, to use what I’d been through to set someone else free.

And then the Lord spoke to me:

"I want you to help women find their identity and purpose. You didn’t go through what you went through just to let that oil remain unused. I’m going to use that oil to ignite and burn in your belly until you become a torch glowing in the darkness. I have called you to lead women out of the depths of their despair and into destiny."

So I said:

"Ok, God. But if I’m going to do this, I want to do it right. Make me wise. Make me equipped. Provide the time and the finances to do it well."

And He did.

Six months later, I passed my oral exams with flying colors.

I am now officially a Certified Christian Life & Brain Coach —

and currently pursuing my trauma-informed coaching certification to go even deeper.

I didn’t just want to know what happens in the soul —

I wanted to understand what happens in the brain and body when we go through trauma, and pain.

What I found left me in awe:

Neuroscience is confirming what the Bible has been teaching for thousands of years. These are just some examples:

✨ 2 Corinthians 10:5 – “Take every thought captive…” ➝ cognitive reframing

✨ Romans 12:2 – “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” ➝ neuroplasticity

✨ Proverbs 23:7 – “As a man thinketh…” ➝ belief-behavior patterns

✨ Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath…” ➝ amygdala regulation

✨ Philippians 4:8 – “…think on these things…” ➝ intentional focus shifts neural wiring

✨ Proverbs 18:21 – “Life and death are in the power of the tongue…” ➝ the brain responds to repetition and declaration

✨ Romans 7:15 – “I do what I hate…” ➝ the war between old programming and Spirit-led identity

This is why I combine biblical truth, neuroscience, and prophetic insight in my coaching.

Because breakthrough isn’t just emotional. It’s spiritual, neurological, and prophetic.

Now, I help women go from survival to full surrender —

healing the hidden places, renewing the mind, and walking boldly in their God-ordained identity and Kingdom assignment.

This isn’t a career.

This is a calling.

And I’m just getting started. 🔥

So, mighty woman of God, I want to encourage you with this:

You think it’s too late.

You think you missed it — that you're too old, too tired, too busy, too broke, or not smart enough.

But let me remind you of something…The enemy doesn't want you to walk in freedom and fulfill your purpose!

Those are lies from the pit of hell and if God did it for me, he will do it for you! You’re right on time! Give Him your "yes!!!"

If God called you, He already made provision for your yes.

He’s not intimidated by your limitations. He doesn’t need perfect — He just needs permission.

And as I always say:

"If it’s His will, it’s His bill."

He will provide the wisdom, the time, the money, the connections, and the energy.

You haven’t missed your calling — you’re about to walk right into it.

Say yes.

The oil on your life was never meant to sit unused —

it was meant to ignite fires in others.

With Love,

Rosangela 💗🌸

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